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Basic Finance Principle-opinions wanted

August 26th, 2008 at 05:49 pm

I have been around long enough to know that in order to get out of debt you need to
a) pay off existing debt and
b) prevent any new debt from occuring

I seem to be struggling with B. It seems as though as I try to throw everything I have to my debt I wind up not being able to afford things that come up during the month. Then I have to get out the old credit card again.

How do I prevent this from happening?! I am eager to pay off my debt and not incur new debt.

Does anyone have any ideas to prevent new debt that worked well for them? I have cut up all but 1 card that I use for emergencies but that doesn't even do it for me. I know if I go into a store like Old Navy or Gap they can pull my account up just like that so I don't even need the card.

I think I am my own worst nightmare.

12 Responses to “Basic Finance Principle-opinions wanted”

  1. frugaltexan75 Says:

    Do you have any kind of a small emergency fund? Perhaps $1000 up to a full month's expenses?

    As tempting as it may be to throw every penny towards debt, if you don't have any cash on hand, when unexpected events occur -- what happens? You add more debt. If you have cash on hand though, you'll be better able to handle the small emergencies or unexpected fluctuations without resorting back to your credit.

    As for Old Navy, etc.? You may have to call and physically have those accounts canceled. Or, you could just not go into those stores. Smile

  2. greengirl Says:

    i agree, an emergency fund is the best thing for all those expenses that seem to come up.
    i find it hard too. the only debt i have is a car loan, although i do have two credit cards. one i dont use, and one i use for every expenses, and pay it off at the end of each cycle. sometimes i think i underestimate how much i spend, and get a shock at how much i have spent, so i have been trying to transfer the money over each time i spend on it to make it easier.
    whatever works for you is best, but an emergency fund is a good idea Big Grin

  3. disneysteve Says:

    Yes, you need an emergency fund, but I think more importantly in your case is to take a look at what kinds of things you are whipping out the CC for because it sure sounds like they aren't emergencies. I'm not aware of any emergencies that involve Gap or Old Navy.

    I never knew you could charge to your account without physically having your card. That's disturbing. Definitely close those accounts and destroy the cards, even if it knocks down your credit score a bit.

  4. swimgirl Says:

    Disney Steve,

    Of COURSE there are emergencies that can be taken care of ONLY at Gap and Old Navy. Just kidding. But sometimes there are sudden needs... a kid suddenly needs a white blouse and black skirt for a concert, etc.

    Really, though, I do agree that the cards need to go. Try NOT using ANY cards just for a month. You can always go back and get it in a month, but give it a try and see if you still want it.

    If I want something, I write it down in a notebook (like clothes and toys and that kind of non-essential) and wait for two weeks. If I have lost sleep thinking about the item and can truly fit it in the budget, I'll go back and get it (more often than not, it's still available). Frequently, I do not want to go back. Works for me.

    Try challenging yourself for a month, though...

  5. little l Says:

    Something that has helped me with spending is to not shop with the kids. I know that is not always possible but if you can do your errands and grocery shop on the weekend and leave the kids with your husband it helps immensley.

    Another thing you can do, that I am in the process of doing as well, is to look for ways to reduce your current expenses. I shopped my auto insurance around and ended up saving over $400 per year and I just blogged earlier today that I saved $42 per month on cable & internet.

    I do have my momoents and when they happen I ask myself if I really need or want the item I am contemplating buying. More often than not, it is a want and so I put it back. You have to induldge yourself once in a while and buy something that is inexpensive or else you might binge and spend too much.

    Good luck!

  6. little l Says:

    Something that has helped me with spending is to not shop with the kids. I know that is not always possible but if you can do your errands and grocery shop on the weekend and leave the kids with your husband it helps immensley.

    Another thing you can do, that I am in the process of doing as well, is to look for ways to reduce your current expenses. I shopped my auto insurance around and ended up saving over $400 per year and I just blogged earlier today that I saved $42 per month on cable & internet.

    I do have my momoents and when they happen I ask myself if I really need or want the item I am contemplating buying. More often than not, it is a want and so I put it back. You do have to induldge yourself once in a while though and buy something that is inexpensive or else you might binge and spend too much. Think of it as dieting. If you deny yourself any sweets, eventually you will go over the edge and eat too much. But if you allow yourself a treat once in a while, your chances of success are much greater.

    Good luck!

  7. little l Says:

    oops, sorry for the double post. I was trying to edit the original one.

  8. baselle Says:

    1. You really want to not shop for entertainment. Not the time to look in and "see what they have". You want to avoid. Make sure your routes and routine do not involve the mall or stores. Later, when you get a bit of money under your belt, you can learn to ignore. Smile
    2. Buying a good or a service at the mall shouldn't be the first solution. If an emergency comes up, take a deep breath and think what are all my choices? Do I have this already? Can I make do without it? If I need to get it can I rent it, buy it at a thrift store, borrow it?

    What sorts of emergencies are you running up against?

  9. Ima saver Says:

    I just quit shopping. I have not been to a Mall in about 8 years. I only go to Wal mart's once or twice a year. I make a list of what I HAVE to have and only buy what I need.

  10. Aleta Says:

    I have an account that is called unallocated funds. This usually is for printed photos or unexpected items I always had a clothes account for my kids when they were growing up. I bet the expenses that you are incurring are recurring ones that come every year. You might have to start allocating money for those accounts and when the money is gone, don't spend anymore.

    It's really all about budgeting or money planning.

  11. compulsive debtor Says:

    I highly recommend closing those accounts and not just cutting up the cards. That way the temptation may be there but you'll have to go to greater lengths to feed it.

  12. jIM_Ohio Says:

    I avoid shopping, I only pay with cash when developing the habit(debit cards are EVIL too), and generally try to up the savings percent until it hurts.

    You should find a way to pay 20% of gross salary to debts. This allows you to aggressively pay down the debts/ Once you are debt free the savings plan most people advise is 15-20% of gross, so you will be used to this plan already.

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